I can't resist my urge to post the opening sentence of my very first message to this forum earlyer this week:
"If somebody told me a year ago, that i will join "the club" to discuss the results of my toilet visits, i could have told the person to get his or hers head examined! Ha ha."
I think You are right, there must be a "hidden satisfaction" in all this.
At my age (61), there is only one unanswered question in my mind about this:
Have i taken a step forwards or backwards !