Hmmm... I am not sure... I have spent my whole adult life feeling instead of thinking and I have a bunch of exes and lots of children calling someone else daddy...ha! I do make pretty babies still I am not sure if feeling is the whole answer. When I got the feeling I was no longer welcome... I left... but it takes a thinking person to realize that the "grass is not always greener on the other side." Still, I am probably going ride out this whole feeling my way through life thing...cuz it's the only path I have gone down that keeps my soul from shriveling up and dying...