"because something is a chelator, does not mean it would work for everybody."
yes, all chelators chelate; that is why they are called chelators. some you may react to. take them and see.
"i'd still like an answer to my question-- how would i know the chelators are doing their job?"
sorry, i don't even understand the question, can't help you.
if you don't want to use a bunch of different products:
either one of these two, Vibrant Life or Beyond Chelation Improved. They are the the best chelation formulas in the world and easier than taking a bunch of individual chelators