that brings up something i have known since i was a teen, but no one ever talks about...women (most, anyway) have to be attracted to a man mentally and physically to have sex (or like sex, maybe i should say), and a man only needs a physical attraction to like sex (and some say not even that much, just as long as the anatomy responds enough to do the act). this was a perfect example of that. i love it when she said, "we talked about the touching."