i see. yeah, that is awful she had to learn that way and then on top of it have to get "the talk".
well, my friends in washington disagree with people having sex. they are church going people and do not agree with pre-marital sex at all. that is fine with me, because finding a good man now days is far too difficult. men my age are divorced, so someone already threw them away. many are gay. many are abusive. i am not being negative, just real. my mom who lives in oregon was talking to a lady the other day and she said the same thing, that she cannot find a good man, so she just gave up. i will not have sex with anyone i am not in love with and i really have gone in the direction of the way the churches believe. to each his/her own, though.