you are right ..some people do get crazy fanatical about this place i was like that also probably about a year or ago or more..very strict control of what I did and anything else was the enemy..but you know what?? i wasnt happy?? my emotional well being was in turmoil..
as i wrestled with never getting ice cream from the best place in town again..or the best pizza here.... You cannot live a life of fruits and veggies only, if it makes you unhappy. Practice moderation and do what you can..I think only someone who is truly very sick and diseased should be so fanatical.
And you are more than welcome here...I confess I eat meat..i eat tons of it..I am on a bodybuilding diet..i am happy ..for once in my life i can drink milk..and yogurt ..and eat meat..dont care about meat that much but hey ..for the first time in my life after 22 yrs of constant exercise i am building muscle ..finally my body transforms from flabby to toned ..and i am excited..sorry if it goes against with others are doing ..but it makes me happier.. Unhappiness leads to stress and that is the worst killer of all..I understand your plight definately, i feel the same way!