It just sounds like you need to get laid..it's no big deal.If you like it then do it,if you don't then fugedaboutit! Just be honest with yourself,do you wanna smoke some sauceage or pound the tuna? Also,attraction and chemistry is either there or it's not..if it's there,truse me,you'll feel it.If it's not then Ha Ha,move on..you don't have to analize (ANALize lol) everything.