For me, it goes with the *job*
that folks will disagree when I have to enforce rules.
But I certainly do not enjoy the process that then occurs
as some folks just seem to want to create *mini dramas*
I think it is an addiction of sorts, that flurry of energy,
for the misplaced *identity of self* to indulge in ego play.
I think perhaps alot of it is what Bruce Lipton talks about
in his great radio interview,
which you probably would appreciate hearing , I think ,
at this link: http://beyondtheordinary.net/brucelipton.shtml
scroll down and clik on listen (free)
to his february 16, 2006 interview
titled mass extinction.