he has always wanted one, and i told him that i was not getting it done. that the only way that i would make it so that i could never have children was if i ever had to have a historectomy. so, i am very happy that he chose to go ahead and get it done. i am also glad that he at least waited until we were able to have two successfull pregnancies. i have had serios problems with hormonal birth control bf and i am now going to be on pills for at least three months to ensure that i dont get pregnant until he has his final test done to determine that his sperm count is zero. my only drawback about the whole thing was that i have always wanted four kids, however, i am glad that i never have to worry about going through this again. my d&c is scheduled for tomorrow morning, and i couldnt be happier that it will be the last.