Re: Is she cheating on me??

What is it that you're looking forward to with this girl/woman? Getting aids or some other std? Being treated like dirt?

Try asking yourself those questions. I don't think that you are not smart enough to know that she is cheating; after all she DID cheat on you and told you about it, albeit with a girl - and you chose to ignore that.

Some other things you may want to look into: how was your mother towards you? Was she really respectful, loving, caring, gentle, helpful, your friend? How was your father with her (and did he really spend any time with you and teach you how to respect yourself)?

Then ask yourself what do you really want in a relationship, what would make you happy, and go for that. Don't settle for anything less just because you think that's "normal" or because it doesn't bother you.

And if you haven't noticed all these things, including that she is more then likely cheating on you, then try to do a little soul searching and see why don't you appreciate yourself. You deserve the same you offer, nothing less. Insist on it, and move on when the other person is not giving that.

Her incosistencies about being turned on or not, are a proof that she's a liar. Integrity/honesty is the first thing to look for in a mate. Tweet