did i think about any of the other questions? i read your post. you said they should get over not having insurance. what are these people supposed to do about not having any way of helping their son? no one will see them. they cannot afford to see a dr and cannot afford medicine. they have to buy herbs and meds when they can afford it and hope and pray they work and guess at what their son has since they cant get a dr to look at him because they cannot afford it. you know you sounded harsh and obnoxious because you even said in your post " if i sound harsh. " i understand you are speaking from your own experience, but people have different situations, and that is what you should try to understand i have never had a confrontational situation with anyone on this site. this was a first. just dont come off as being so rude or please dont respond to my messages here.