Welcome to the forum - in my posts, I often refer to my abuser as "he," but abuse is abuse and male-battering is probably one of the most unknown, least-reported, and taboo topics with regard to relationships! I have known hundreds of abused women and less than a dozen men who have reported domestic violence and abuse.
Below are some links that you may find helpful. And, please try to understand that not all women are manipulative or conniving, just as not all men are abusive narcissists!