It's way too cold in Arkansas right now! I bet that's why you are hurting. You need warmth and lot of sunshine.
The kind offer to Killi will NEVER be forgotten by me. I was truly touched and I know Killi was, too. She will now PAY IT FORWARD!
Stay warm. I am sending warmth your way. It's in the 60's way down here in the deep south....still a little too cool for me, but it's better than freezing temperatures. Killi, if you are reading this, where do you live?