great post. I also think we should take into account that we all have different personalities. I am not a "warm and fuzzy" type of person, and my posts reflect that. Some people in the past have been offended by what I've posted here, when in fact I did not mean to do anything but give my experience or get more information. So before you get hurt or offended over something someone wrote, try to consider the source- an anonymous person who doesn't know much about you at all, and probably has other things on their mind than hurting or offending you personally.
That said, there are trolls out there who DO seem to live to get a rise out of people, but thankfully those are few and far between on Curezone (at least in my experience).