No offense

Having read your post I think I can see why. Do you talk like you write? I really couldn't understand what you were talking about. Then you were saying "doing it" and 'if he still wanted it or down with it'(not exactly verbatim but close) as if you were having sex with the person. You have run on sentences and so forth. He probably doesn't understand a thing you're talking about that's why he's saying that.