Hi,
Magic-glitters post was, I'm sure, well meant and written with the best of intentions. I am guessing that it is difficult for you to see things too clearly just now.
I suppose what I am saying is that you cannot take responsibility for others. Yes, you can point them in the right direction (help if they need it, advice if you can give it), but worry about yourself first. If you are well, you are stronger, see things clearer, and maybe be in a better position to help.