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Re: My boyfriend thinks Im Cheating


signs of a cheating lover? Please check all that apply.
Starts working late or unusual hours.
Turns the Cell Phone 's ringer off so you don't hear late-night calls.
Takes more showers at unusual times, when he/she comes home from work, comes home from being out, etc.
Starts working out or taking a renewed interest in his/her appearance.
Begins using new sexual techniques with you.
Your spouse ends phone calls when you walk into the room.
Starts listening to new music, taking an interest in new hobbies.
Hides credit card statements and Cell Phone bills so you don't see charges.
Finds excuses not to be intimate with you
Buys new underwear.
Works more but the additional work doesn't show up in the paycheck.
Callers to your home hang up when you answer.
They take their Cell Phone with them to run quick errands - like to get gas.
Your notice your spouse acting too friendly with the person you suspect. Invading their "personal space" without noticing.
The interior of his/her car is altered - seats moved back or forward, child's car seat taken out.
Your relationship changes, either the spouse gets more distant or more involved.
Spends more time on the computer when you're not around. Closes browser windows when you come into the room.
Spouse's friends suddenly start needing more help moving, watching the kids, which require him/her to be gone more often.
Opens a new email account without telling you.
Coworkers or his/her friends seem nervous around you.
Your instincts tell you something just isn't right.

If you checked even one of these signs your marriage may be in trouble. That's because the painful truth any private investigator will tell you is that 90-95% of clients who hire a private detective to find out if their spouse is cheating find out their suspicions are correct.

INow, whatever you do, don't confront your spouse. Why? Because 99 times out of 100, cheating spouses will go on the offense and get mad at you for asking.

That's what cheating spouse do. They lie. They cheat. And they blame you for all of it. Plus, if you tip off your spouse that you suspect them, then that will make it even harder to find out if in fact they are really cheating on you.

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Infidelity expert and New York therapist Dr. Bonnie Eaker Weil, author of "Make Up, Don't Break Up," told the Toronto Sun the 12 signs of cheating man:

He picks fights with you.

He acts unappreciated.

He becomes critical and finds fault with you.

He becomes distant and uncommunicative.

He changes his image or style, such as losing weight or buying new clothing.

He tells you there is something wrong with you and says you need to seek professional help.

He changes his behavior when it comes to money.

He changes his sexual behavior, including patterns, positions and frequency.

He buys you unexpected gifts and does good deeds, such as chores around the house or helping more with the children.

He has absences that he cannot explain.

There are hang-ups on your home phone.

He leaves earlier for work and arrives home later.
So beware if he ever says this to you, which is typically the opening line of a cheating husband: "I would never cheat on you." If you hear this, you'll know instantly he's having an affair.
Elizabeth Landers and Vicky Mainzer agree with Weil that men exhibit very predictable behavior when it comes to infidelity. They wrote "The Script: The 100% Absolutely Predictable Thing Men Do When They Cheat" in which they claim cheaters follow the exact same script. Landers and Mainzer know this because they interviewed hundreds of women nationwide whose husbands cheated on them. Believe it or not, all of them heard the same lines and experienced the same actions over and over.

Call them the red flags of infidelity. Knowing them can help you identify the problem and possibly fix it so your marriage can survive. It won't be easy.
 

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