HI! In my personal opinion parents in a metaphorical way never die parts of them genetically or psicologically remain in us till life. I sometimes in some atitudes I have can see my mopther in me,others my father. There is a book "My mother myself" That explains that perfectly. Probably in a particular situation you are living you acting like your mom. Check that attitude if you like it or not. You can change it if it is not working.