Melissa.....Don't you think Ace Paint Lady should just leave this type of relationship? Or maybe her partner should recognize the impossible situation and leave it himself?
I am a 65 year old man in a similar situation. My girlfriend is 55 and very active and healthy. I just can't keep up with her. Our bedroom activities are usually 'Hot' but sometimes I can't get it Up. She insists on a Condom, which 'kills' the spontaneity of the moment. We're both Raw Foodists and generally healthy except that I have some physical problems (back pain) which limits me. I've asked her to leave me but she is reluctant. What would you recommend for us?