Hi Melissa, I think you give great advice.
My problem is I am 45 with a domestic partner who is 60. Due to health problems he has been impotent throughout most of my 12 years with him. This past year has been real hard on me. I work around a lot of men customers, many of which are much younger, and hit on me. I have never been unfaithful however my will power is wavering, and I am really wanting to have real sex again. There is one in particular I am attracted to. What is the best way to set my mind in not wanting this guy, when I really do.
I do love my partner, and respect him, he is a great guy, but not in the sack. Help please.....I am going out of town and may not get back to your answer for a few days, but please answer.