Re: update

i hope you can realize that this situation has been created. if you can, then you know it can be corrected. you need some very specialized help with this involving child psychology and possibly physical therapy. there may be only a handful in the US who can address this. i can see the problem but i have no idea how to correct it. the sooner the better. there is an inordidnate amount of attention being paid to this by these children and they are interpreting their experiences in unhelpful ways. it is, and dont get this wrong, closely akin to sexual abuse and the harm that comes with that. you are an adult and understand and see things a certain way. children are in no wise equipped. in fact, it may be that the techniques used to counsel and rehabilitate such "victims" may also work with them. speak to a professional in this area and see what they think. they are seeing their bodies as a problem, and that is a big problem. it needs to be circumvented and/or diverted. show this post to someone with lots of experience in this area.