For a while I would replay what others did to me. When confronting the person, she told me she never meant any harm. Just telling the person helped me release the pressure. She harms but doesn't "intend" to.
Now if I dont forgive her ( which I have ) I think about when I hurt someone else. What if someone else never forgives me? It doesn't feel good to never be forgiven.
We all make mistakes, but we have to learn from them.
I dont like to confront things sometimes, and when I do, I seem to make things worse.
I dont like to be told what to do, I am stubborn and make excuses.
Sometimes I feel like I have learned from others, then why do I still get in trouble?