Re: sensitive,dry,shiny,broken out, chapped skin

Yes, definitely don't exfoliate too much. That adversely affects the skin. Also, one thing I like are products with retinol as this maintains clear pores and levels the frequency of breakouts. Go to http://www.murad.com/hormonal-aging-products.html
for some nice products that will help you with this. The site is easy to peruse. You shouldn't have any problem finding something that appeals to you.