kleinphi, you know I think about people in such ways that when they see that you are alone, live alone, very few friends and a hint of desperation, then they start to play games where they want to be chased because I have exp. the same thing. I don't think I will ever get down to the business of why some people have all the luck and others no luck at all. It's really something to think about. Maybe it's just not meant to be. I hate to say it but that's what it's looking like for me at least.