not to seem judgemental or panicky, but when you have burning down there - FOR A YEAR! - sex should be the least of your worries. I mean, can it really be preasant for you when you can't even sit down? If your husband isn't being understanding about this, he needs to go *@%! himself, frankly. If his penis hurt he would standing be on his ears. Your health is very important, and burning down there is not the norm!