No offense intended but...

...even after reading your reasons for posting that question, I think it is ridiculous. Or at least phrased ridiculously. Rite of passage? I just can't believe that somebody would even ask that. I also think some of your other statements were way off base as well, such as the comment about women getting abortions out of spite. I truly hope you don't believe such a thing. And as for the original question posted, I truly hope you don't expect serious responses.