and so you will deny the poor girl an abortion if she needs one?? because oh well to sad your parents were jerks? they didnt give you the correct support and structure you need so... well thats bad it sucks for you lil poor girl...and then you sit back and say aahhhh i am glad my childhood was good and i dont have that disadvantage as the poor girl...see that is selfish talk...figuratively speaking ..not about you i have no idea about your childhood.