So, you are asking whether there is right and wrong. I said that no one can answer that question, and that was my opinion.
Then, you ask this lovely little passive aggressive question.
"Is this person out of her mind or is this pretty standard fare in the pro-choice world?"
Sort of defeats the purpose if you really wanted to know an answer to a valid question. If you just wanted to be aggressive, and mean, and get people riled up, then I think you made your point also.