I'm amazed. You totally get it. It is the real world. My gosh, if everyone that just proselytized all the time could get that through their thick dramatic skulls. It doesn't matter what one thinks about abortion, it's a SOCIAL issue. It's been around for a long time, and it will continue to be so.
In the long run, they can yell about murder and evil all they want, but that doesn't change one iota of the real core issue. If women don't have a legal choice, they will seek out an ILLEGAL option. Whether you believe in it or not, you have to keep it legal just for that reason.
Thanks so much for your honest post. Indeed, the women that went though abortion did not do so lightly, and to be chastised and demonized is so very sad.