"If a woman is screaming they want to be treated the same as men then they should be able to support themselves and not have any help from a man."
Okay, I think I am starting to get what you mean. So if a woman wants rights, she ought to raise a baby herself (even though a man had something to do with it). But if a woman wants a man to share in raising a baby, she should expect no rights at all. Is that it?