Re: Honesty Time for Autumn

dear friend,

everything you complain about, is up to you.
Somehow you are constantly doing something, I can't tell what it is exactly, that prevents you from getting what you want. Maybe it's just your way to ask for it: I can feel resignation lurking there. Or mayb it is a lack of self-confidence, somhow you do not truly love yourself. Read your own post and see how you settle down from the very beginning . It's your negative expectations affecting others' reactions. It's like you were saying, "oh, I know I will never reach that". You are creating your loneliness. You cannot ASK for love or hugs, you must attract them - and the only way you cn do that, is by feeling you ar DESERVING it!
stop looking for what you wish outside you - it is not there. stop looking for others' appreciations, look for YOURS. somway it seems that no matter what you do, you do never judge yourself worth enough to find a mate. give yourslf a break from doing a thousand things for others. b a littl selifsh. find your true self, and love it. Do it now ! here's my advice. Hugs (no joke)