"It is good simply coz you have found out about ur partner's cheating now not later. Try "
Sorry , I don't understand. Why is it better they found out about their partner's cheating sooner than later? Doens't matter a bit unless they were to break it off with the other person.
To the OP: Love is a decision. You can decide to love someone who values you instead of someone who will go out on you. It's up to you.