Re: For those who are/were married...

Well, I married my dh 6 weeks after meeting him so there wasn't really time to see a change. LOL We just celebrated 9 years and are completely nuts about each other. :D I believe in marriage, I don't agree with living together. But aside from that, you have to be commited. You can't let yourself consider divorce or use "leaving" as a weapon against your spouse.