Guys that are older than you WILL HAVE BAGGAGE. You don't want baggage. HOw many times do I have to say this...GUYS WITH BAGGAGE ARE TROUBLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Find decent, church-going, fun, handsome, athletic SINGLE guys your own age and date them. Date, date, date. Is that too much to ask? Why make life so unbelievably complicated with someone else's kids, and all the rest? Drop every guy that has baggage and start all over. It's time to start from scratch. Erase the baggage and start your dating life from this point on...