of course it means something.

The guy has a long history with the other woman, not you. He slept with her, dined with her, lived with her, and made a kid with her. Either you accept the fact that you're a "shared woman" or you get on down the road and find a guy with no baggage. Why women settle for guys with loads of baggage I'll never understand. Life doesn't need to be this complicated. I know what I'd do...