our very first post was a misunderstanding. during the chat was another... right after i wrote that i am worried about that since you can not read the facial expresions and the body language. I was really just being a ball buster like i would with any of my friends. do you really think anyone that hangs with musicians , bands and visual artist would have hang ups about hair or smoking..... sorry that you misread....sorry that i offended you in any way..... i would never be a bitch like that for a serious point. I am always respectful and polite. I was just playing and i thought you were too. Have a good day.A