<< In Matthew 5: 17, Yahshua stated that He did not come to destroy the law, but to fulfill it. Translating this concept back through the Greek to the Hebrew, He stated that He came to interpret the law. >>
The above verse and statment that you made actually had nothing to do with the children and bears that you were asking about. So if we can stick with the subject that you originally asked about.
As I said in my earlier response. God is God, know that He has a plan for everything. I will add that I found norxgirls message very interesting regarding that subject (copy below).