HI Headcase.
I just wanted you to know that I did what you told Lapis to do. It did change me drastically in an awesome way. It was like my eyes were open for the first time.
Its like the veil covering my eyes/mind came off. I would never want to be the person I was before that day! EVER. The only problem is after you change and "see the LIGHT" you want so desperately for everyone you love to do the same. DO NOT get discouraged if they do not follow suit. We all have to find our own way.