Re: please help :(
16th December, 1975
12-16-1975 = 3-7-22/4 = 32/5 life lesson #
Born on the 16th day is tough. All of the "teen" days are tough, karmic numbers, because it means you have to learn independence. 16 is the most independent number in that it's the 6 working thru independence, and 6 is all about beauty, family matters, the home, and health. So those are the quadrants that will give you your most testing times, your most chances for triumph, an epic life of overcoming severe obstacles.
Since 16 reduces to 7, which is a very spiritual yet scientific number, it means that you came into this incarnation as a very spiritual being. In ancient times children born on any day reducing to 7 would have been pledged to the temple to study reality, religion, meditate, etc. 7's may follow orthodox religion, may become leaders in fact, or they may rebel and find a religion that suits them better that is different than the one their culture offered them. Either way, it is important for them to study the mysteries of life and have a personal code of conduct.
32/5 is one of the hardest life lessons out there. It means you have to learn how to work with others in healthy, equal, egalatarian partnerships, with clear contracts, and deal with constant change. I've got the same number in reverse - 23/5 - and it's no picnic. As for holding someone's past against them - would you want them to do the same to you? Put everything to this reciprocity test. the only way to last in a long-term relationship is to be good at forgiveness. And the only way to find the right long-term rleationship is to appreciate the ones that are very easy in the beginning, where you relate really well to each other and laugh a lot. If they start out difficult from the getgo, it only gets worse.
32/5 people must learn to give up on drama, stop feeding on it and allowing it into their lives. They have to learn what's important, until then their health will suffer. they have to avoid negative people, because they are natural empaths and soak up all kinds of energy. It helps to do meditations to avoid this. They should always be studying something, mental and physical.
Hope that makes sense! :)