It's like my family and friends have told me many times..."When you stop looking, you will find it" Makes sense. I have not dated anyone for almost a year now, only 4-guys in the 6 years I have been divorced. ALL of them but one, (he moved out of state) turned out to be only interested in sex...(I hate that) so, I have almost turned into a MAN-HATER. Ha Ha, what do you say to that? I would NOT ask her advice about anything, period!!!