how to let go?

I'm an Asian and I'll be getting married to a man I've known for 7 years, which my parents have selected for me. In the course of the relationship, we are always far from each other. We communicate through letters and phone calls. He promised to ask for a transfer to the town where I am working but never did. I'm willing to marry him because I think he loves me. I have never fall madly in love with him, I learned to love him. He's a nice guy, gentle, loyal and religious. He's also the opposite of me. An introvert, quiet, homely and reserved. I'm an extrovert, and love live bands and go out often. Thinking of this contrast qualities, I'm having cold feet now that my wedding is just around the corner. To make matters worse,just last 2 months, I fell for someone close to me, who's been a dear friend, truly, deeply, madly in love with him. He loves me too. The bad news is I can't turn back since the wedding will be in 2 weeks' time. Now, the problem is I don't even feel guilty for falling for someone else when I shouldn't have in the first place. And that someone else is hurting very much, knowing that it is a losing battle for him. How do I let him go? I've tried stop calling him but I kept thinking of him, all the time. The same goes for him, he did try to stop our communication but failed miserably. I love him very much, but I love my parents more. So, I'll do as my parents say. And I have to forget him. Please help me. How do i get him out of my mind? How to stop falling in love with him? It's hurting both of us a lot. Please..is there a spell to make both of us forget each other? Help me please. Tweet