People can have a go at me all they want but i was in a situation where i was in love with a girl and it was wrong for me to be in love with her for reasons i wont go into. The way i solved the problem was by severing contact with her, experiencing many sleepless nights, ingnoring her when i had to see her, and eventually over the years the pain gets less but it doesnt go away. Some times i still think about her but i know it could not and can not ever be. My head is stronger than my heart and though it hurts its just something i have to live with. If you can live with the pain of letting him go, let him go, if you cant live with the pain dont.