no offence but you people are so stupid
you say that it puts restrictions on your financial positions and sexual relationships not to mention how others would see you, yet you still continue to persdue these losers. Raise the bar girls i can tell you all have great personalities but please cant you see this is not only a short term effect its a long term thing and these addicts you are with are not only brigning themselves down but you aswell. NMove on up and get someone new and better... you deserve it