Re: how to tell people no...

hmmm. i would count myself as a good conversationalist. i can have a decent conversation with anybody about anything, even the really uncomfortable things. even with someone i really dislike. but for some unknown reason to me i just cant tell a potential partner no, or even break up with someone. i go over it in my head a million times, and it always sounds good, but when it comes to verbalising it, it becomes a bit of a problem. i cant find the right moment to bring it up, or when it does come up, i clam up or ignore it.
it could be a fear of being rejected. not so much rejected, but being disliked by the person for saying something they didnt want to hear. (queen of saying what people want to hear... comes from being a Gemini i am quite sure...)
it could be a reversion to my exceptionally shy childhood. or maybe its some sort of karmic block. i might go visit the spiritual forum. Tweet