Re: how to tell people no...

Rarely do I find really good conversationalists, especially on "sensitive" subjects. You're talking to one now, though. I talk about women's problems, relationships, sex, work, whatever because I am naturally curious and can put those thoughts into quick, efficient sentences. That's a gift from above. If you don't possess that kind of quick ad lib, listen to those who have it. You may be inquisitive but not able to verbalize as such. No crime in that. Pick up some technique from the pros and incorporate that into your lingo. Only use what is natural for you in order to avoid sounding "coached" or artificial. Everyone can become somewhat proficient at being a conversationalist, but sensitive subject chat is one topic left for the verbally learned. Also, don't give advice on subjects you really have no insight in...you will continue to sound bitchy. I have built up a track record of being correct on many a subject in life and that flows through in my advice to others. If you haven't had plenty of sex, don't give sexual advice. If you haven't had many relationships, don't tell others how to run their life... Tweet