Re: Mr5639.. can you clear this up ?

Hi Kasia:

Yes, I’m still seeing her, but I haven’t had sex with her again, only that one time, unless you include oral sex. Then it was twice. She doesn’t want to continue to have a sexual relationship with me until I get things resolved with my wife. And I feel the same way. I don’t feel guilty about having sex with her, but I do want to get things straightened out in my life. I do feel a little guilty about not taking charge of my life and cleaning it up in a timely manner. But it’s more of a feeling of a lack of responsibility on my part, than any feeling of cheating.

I came up with an idea of how to solve my dilemma, but it’s so wild, I thought if I mentioned it to anyone, I’d get my face slapped, or at the very least they would never speak to me again. But I mentioned it to this lady, and she agreed to it. I was completely bowled over. I think I’m still in shock over that one.

I can understand your feelings on having an affair, because you’re having an ongoing sexual relationship with your husband. But it’s not that way with me. I love my wife very much, but I love her like my sister, not as a lover. To me, it’s a big difference.

I’m just happy that you and your husband are getting along so well.

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