Mr5639.. can you clear this up ? 
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Good morning Mr.5639....
first of all let me thank you for the kind words in your last post...I will have to learn to be alone without being lonely...
I was reading the sex forum and found your post from 13 days ago.... I'm copy and pasting it...
Date: 07:22 Oct 18 2003 (13 days ago)
I’m guessing you’re single. And I know how you feel. I was married to a woman who viewed sex as a wifely chore. Something she had to submit herself to in order to be married. She wanted the security and companionship of marriage, but not the sex. It took me many, many years of sexless marriage to realize it wasn’t me that was doing something wrong. Of course she wasn’t doing anything wrong either, I just had to realize it just wasn’t my fault.
Now I’m doing something about my sex life. And after not having sex in so many years, I didn’t even know if I could do it. But it worked out just fine, and I felt like I was on top of the world. It was like volcanic euphoria, it was so wonderful. I found a woman who likes sex just fine, and it took me days before I could stop grinning all the time like an idiot.
Ok now my question.. here in the realtionship forum I was under the impression that you hadnt been with another woman and was just considering it...
Beleive me i'm not judging you ...I was just a bit confused...
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This is a reply to # 595,106Good Morning DeeAnn:
I did find a woman, who made me feel wanted. And who likes sex as much as I do. I was beginning to think all women didn’t like sex. Even though she still had a problem with me being married, she asked me if I wanted to have sex with her. I declined the first time she asked me, but the second time she asked, I said yes. And I don’t feel ashamed, or sorry, or guilty about what I did. But I do want to resolve this with my wife. She deserves to know so everything can be out in the open.
I still can’t believe this lady wanted someone like me. But I’m trying to figure out what to do now. My wife knows I’m seeing this woman, but not that we had sex. But I don’t want to keep having sex with her. Not until I resolve this issue in my life and know what I’m going to do.
But I can’t keep putting it off. Either I have to have sex with someone, or I have to put the weight back on. I can’t stand having these feelings, and not do something about it. The feelings are just too strong, and painful.
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Nice to hear from you 56...
Ok... beleive me I wasnt judging.....I think the suggestion of separtion might be a good idea... give you time to figure out what it is that you want to do...
Also.. dont be surprized that someone wanted to be with you..
- Re: Mr5639.. can you clear this up ? DeeAnn
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This is a reply to # 595,107Nice to hear from you 56...
Ok... beleive me I wasnt judging.....I think the suggestion of separtion might be a good idea... give you time to figure out what it is that you want to do...
Also.. dont be surprized that someone wanted to be with you..
- Re: Mr5639.. can you clear this up ? kasia
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This is a reply to # 595,109I thought you said you'd never be unfaithful to your wife,and it looks as if you are?????- Re: Mr5639.. can you clear this up ? Mr. 5639
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This is a reply to # 595,110Hi Kasia:
I never had been unfaithful to my wife in all the years we’d been married, but I came to a point where I just couldn’t take it anymore. It wasn’t something where I felt I made a mistake, it was something I went into with my eyes wide open. I knew what I was doing, and I did it anyway.
I know my life is a mess, but I’m trying to get it straightened out without hurting anyone any more than I have to, myself included. I know my wife is going to be hurt. But I’ve been hurt too, and I know I’ll be hurt even more as things progress.
I really think the worst thing I’ve done is stay in my marriage as long as I have without a separation to step back and put things in perspective.
I’m not sure who’s been more unfaithful in my marriage. Me or my wife. I know, she didn’t have sex with anyone else, I did. But she hasn’t been faithful in making our marriage workable sexually. I know it isn’t her fault, but it hasn’t been fair to me either.
I don’t feel it’s anyone’s fault. I don’t like to place blame on anyone. I like to work things out to everyone’s best interest. I just hope I can.
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This is a reply to # 595,120Are you still seeing this other woman?
I dont think i would ever have the nerve to have an affair (remember my attraction post?lol) I would feel so mean and guilty- Re: Mr5639.. can you clear this up ? Mr. 5639
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Hi Kasia:
Yes, I’m still seeing her, but I haven’t had sex with her again, only that one time, unless you include oral sex. Then it was twice. She doesn’t want to continue to have a sexual relationship with me until I get things resolved with my wife. And I feel the same way. I don’t feel guilty about having sex with her, but I do want to get things straightened out in my life. I do feel a little guilty about not taking charge of my life and cleaning it up in a timely manner. But it’s more of a feeling of a lack of responsibility on my part, than any feeling of cheating.
I came up with an idea of how to solve my dilemma, but it’s so wild, I thought if I mentioned it to anyone, I’d get my face slapped, or at the very least they would never speak to me again. But I mentioned it to this lady, and she agreed to it. I was completely bowled over. I think I’m still in shock over that one.
I can understand your feelings on having an affair, because you’re having an ongoing sexual relationship with your husband. But it’s not that way with me. I love my wife very much, but I love her like my sister, not as a lover. To me, it’s a big difference.
I’m just happy that you and your husband are getting along so well.
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This is a reply to # 595,122What is the idea you have come up with to solve your dilemma??...Its ok you dont have to tell...lol :)
I'm curious though???
Kasia- Re: Mr5639.. can you clear this up ? Mr. 5639
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This is a reply to # 595,123Hi Kasia:
I don’t feel like posting it on the forum for everyone to see. But I will tell you if you want to know. Just send me an e-mail and I’ll tell you.
Tracy- Thanks Mr5639 but i think i'll pass kasia
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This is a reply to # 595,124It sounds like something i dont want to hear...lol, Thanks anyway
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This is a reply to # 595,125Hi Kasia:
That’s probably a wise decision, it’s not all that great anyway. Good luck to you.
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