Re: My best friend, and boyfriend breaking it off

He might be your best friend, but he certainly should not be your only friend. Rule #1 -don't ever put all your energies into one person, especially a man. Don't you have any good girlfriends you can talk to? Hummmm....

Well, I honestly do feel sorry for you. Obviously, he didn't take into account how the break up would affect you...being his "true love" and all. To me that seems pretty selfish of him...to just up & leave...saying that it's not "offically over completely yet" -what nerve.

Honey, the only advise I can give you is to gather up all his stuff, gifts, notes, letters, etc...put them away & cry it out. I know it's been hell, but it didn't have to be that way if would have just opened up to you...that doesn't make any sense, whatsoever. Seems like to me that he might not be "offically cheating completely yet" ...but I bet you a million bucks that he has his eye on someone else.

Get out, get a massage, go to the mall, call up an old friend, take a walk, go the pet store...love on furry animal, work out, go to the movies (comedy)...I have been where you are, and it took time...but what helped the most was moving on, and not allowing my ex-bf to dictate my feelings by keeping me on a string.

The best communication -is no communication at all. Ever hear the old saying "I can show you better than I can tell you". Don't call or email him from this day forward. If he wants to talk, tell him that you are busy.

It will take time, but you'll survive. Be Strong! I will pray that God sends you someone with HIS heart to love you.

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