Thanks for the advice..All though I feel the need to clear a few things up..The ex didnt leave she is still involved in the childs life. My Boyfriend gets her every weekend..And she has her during the week. But needless to say we are still battling with her. And now I think that they are doing stupid little things that they know will piss me off like such..The ex picks the baby up every sunday at 6 pm, this past sunday she had my boyfriends mother with her and the ex was driving his mothers car!!!!SUCH CRAP!!! Maybe I am overreacting but its like his mother pushed us out of her life and invited the ex in with open arms..HELP!!!!!