Re: i don't know what to do...

hi ocean...i can kind of sympathize with you. i am still trying to get over a two year long distance relationship i was in, and i know how rough being separated with distance can be. all i can say is this...for me personally i came to a point where i said enough is enough, i am not taking any more crap. bottom line. i felt like i was just 'putting up' with a lot of unneeded things in my life (with regards to the relationship) and that my girlfriend didnt understand how much i hated it, how it was bugging me, etc. i felt the same way too about patience. i thought certain 'little things' that bugged me would eventually go away, and that everything would be resolved, but i was just kidding myself because everything kept getting worse. if your man is not supporting you in the way you need to be supported, especially if you have given him ample enough time to change, i would think that you two need to move on. then again, as im writing this, i myself am still confused about what happened with my relationship so maybe im not the best person to take advice from??? hahah. i dont know. but just make sure to not put up with anybodys crap. you are a great person and you deserve the same or better. no one should have to settle for second best. amen.